I CORINTHIANS 8:1-13

JULY 12, 2020

TOUCHING THINGS OFFERED TO IDOLS

INTRODUCTION:

1. The Corinthians had written the Apostle seeking advice on several subjects. In the previous chapter he gave answer to a number of questions concerning marriage.
2. In this chapter he takes up the second subject about which they had questions, namely, the lawfulness of eating of the sacrifices offered to idols.
3. In light of the decree which came out of the Jerusalem council, of which the Holy Ghost is said to be its author, why did not Paul simply refer to it? (See Acts. 15:29) He instead seems to go against it. (See Ch. 10:25-27) These facts do not prove any discrepancy between Paul and the council of which he was a part, nor that the decree was not obligatory on the church. They only go to explain its true intent and meaning. First, there was no permanent moral ground for the prohibition. Second, the ground of the prohibition being expediency was of necessity temporary and limited. It had reference to Christians in the midst of those to whom eating such meat was an abomination. It therefore ceased to be binding whenever and wherever the grounds of the prohibition did not exist.
4. His answer will provide a good example respecting one of the limitations upon Christian liberty that the Apostle gave in Chapter 6:12. “All things are lawful for me, but all things are not expedient.” Our liberty ends where offence to our brother begins.

I. KNOWLEDGE ALONE IS NOT SUFFICIENT, BUT MUST BE TEMPERED AND MOVED BY LOVE FOR THE BRETHREN, WHICH IS ESSENTIAL TO RIGHT KNOWING. (VERSES 1-3) “The letter killeth, the spirit giveth life.” (II Cor. 3:6)

A. THIS INVOLVED SOMETHING OF FREQUENT OCCURRENCE IN THAT AGE WHEN THE CHURCHES WERE AMONG THE HEATHEN. (VERSE 1a) “Now as touching things offered unto idols.”
1. It was a custom among the heathen to make feasts on their sacrifices. They would eat themselves, and also invite their neighbors. They would take what was not eaten to their homes to partake of later. They would give portions to friends, or perhaps invite them to eat at their table. (See Ch. 10:25-27) Often the portion that was given to the priest would be sold in the marketplace.
2. So, it was a common occurrence to have occasion to either eat or decline to eat. The decision was not to be made solely on their knowledge that an idol is nothing at all. Other deciding factors must include their own conscience, and the conscience of others.

B. CHARITY MUST BE THEIR PREFERENCE OVER CONCEITED KNOWLEDGE. (VERSE 1b) “We know that we all have knowledge. Knowledge puffeth up but charity edifieth.”
1. Christians must take the course that is fitted to do the greatest good.
2. Knowledge itself, being untempered, can puff up and swell the head, and actually become a source of harm. (Rom. 12:16)
3. But, true love and tender regard for our brethren, will cause us to consult their interest, and act so as to build them up in the faith.

C. THERE IS NO EVIDENCE OF IGNORANCE MORE COMMON THAN THE CONCEIT OF KNOWLEDGE. (VERSE 2)
1. He that knows most will best understand his own ignorance and imperfection of knowledge.
2. He that imagines himself to be a knowing man, and becomes thereby conceited, has reason to suspect that he knows nothing aright, nothing as he ought to know it.
3. It is one thing to know truth, and another to know it as we ought, so as to improve us and to edify others.

D. HE THAT LOVES GOD, AND IS THEREBY MADE TO LOVE HIS NEIGHBOR, THE SAME IS KNOWN OF GOD. (VERSE 3)
1. Those who love God will be taught of God, so that they know as they ought.
2. The charitable person will be known of God. (I John 4:7, 8)
3. Those who love God, and for His sake love their brethren and seek their good, are themselves beloved of God.

II. ONE DETERMINING FACTOR CONCERNING THE QUESTION AT HAND IS THAT CHRISTIANS KNOW THAT THERE IS ONE GOD AND ONE MEDIATOR, AND IDOLS ARE ALL NOTHINGS. (VERSES 4-6) Looking at the matter totally subjectively, Christians who had this knowledge needed have no qualms about eating meat offered to idols. However, if eating offended others, that also had to be a major consideration.

A. TO DETERMINE IF IT WAS PROPER TO EAT OF THESE SACRIFICES, IT MUST BE DETERMINED WHAT AN IDOL IS. (VERSE 4)
1. Heathen idols are nonentities, they have no existence. They are only images. Scripture calls them vanities, lies, and lying vanities. This is why it was so foolish for men to worship them. (Isa. 44:9, 10, 20)
2. From this it follows that eating or not eating is a matter of indifference. The eating could have no effect on one’s religious state; it could make him neither better nor worse.

B. THERE IS BUT ONE TRUE GOD, NOTWITHSTANDING THE MANY MYTHICAL HEATHEN DEITIES OR THE MANY POWERFUL BEINGS THROUGHOUT THE UNIVERSE. (VERSES 4b, 5; DEUT. 10:17; JOSH. 22:22; DAN. 2:47)
1. The Apostle concedes that in the wide sense of the term, there are many gods and lords, but he does not admit that the whole hierarchy of deities, as conceived in the minds of the heathen, actually existed, except in their imaginations.
2. There are two things that the Apostle here means to deny.
a) First, he denies the very existence of such beings as the heathen conceived their gods to be.
b) Second, he denies that the supernatural beings which do actually exist, and which even Scripture refers to as gods and lords, are really divine. They are all mere creatures.

C. THOUGH THERE ARE MANY CREATURES CALLED GODS, THERE IS BUT ONE TRUE GOD, THE CREATOR OF ALL THINGS. (VERSE 6)
1. There is but one Being Who is eternal, self-existent, and almighty.
2. This one God is The Father; not in opposition to the other persons of the Trinity, but as the Author and Originator of all things. He is “The Father of whom are all things.” He is our Father.
3. As there is but one God and Father and Creator of all things, so there is but one Lord, Who is the administrator of the universe, into Whose hands all power in heaven and earth belong.
4. This one Lord is Jesus Christ. All things are by Him. (Eph. 3:9; Col. 1:16; Heb. 1:2, 3)
5. We as Christians are by Him. Though we are included in the “all things” as creatures; as Christians we have been redeemed by Him, and brought to God as new creatures by Him.

III. A MAJOR DETERMINING FACTOR CONCERNING THE QUESTION AT HAND IS THAT NOT ALL WITHIN THE CHURCH HAD THE UNDERSTANDING THAT IDOLS WERE ALL NOTHINGS. (VERSES 7-13)

A. EVERY CHRISTIAN WAS NOT AS YET SO FULLY CONVINCED THAT AN IDOL WAS NOTHING. (VERSE 7)
1. Such Christians, though they were weaker believers, still knew that there was but one true God. However, they were not fully persuaded that the gods of the heathen had no existence. Their weak consciences were still under the influence of an idol. “With conscience of an idol.” In I Pet. 2:19, “conscience of God” means a conscience under the influence of God.
2. Having this apprehension of the idol these were still eating the sacrifice as a sacrifice. They did not regard it as ordinary meat, but as having a religious character.
3. Therefore, Paul says, “Their conscience being weak was defiled.” A weak conscience, in this case, is one that is not clear and decided in its judgments.
a) In Scripture, “whatever is not of faith is sin.” (Rom. 14:23) Therefore, whatever one does, thinking it wrong, or doubtful, whether it be or not, to him it is sin.
b) The man who ate an idol sacrifice with such uncertainty defiled his conscience, whether right or wrong, because it was burdened with a sense of guilty, he was guilty.

B. NONE ARE MADE BETTER OR WORSE SPIRITUALLY BY THEIR EATING OR NOT EATING. (VERSE 8)
1. It appears that some of them may have made a merit of their eating, because it plainly testified that they regarded the idol as nothing. (Verse 10)
2. But, in fact, eating and drinking are in themselves actions indifferent.
3. It is a serious mistake to think that what we eat or do not eat has any particular virtue in it to recommend us to God.

C. ALL MUST BE CAUTIONED ABOUT ABUSING THEIR LIBERTY, LEST WE OFFEND THE WEAKER BRETHREN. (VERSES 9, 10)
1. It is always better to deny ourselves what we believe to be our right, than to have our liberty be the occasion of causing a brother to stumble. (Verse 9) This is a Christian principle which may be applied in a great variety of situations and circumstance. (Ch. 6:7; Rom.14:1-7; Phil 2:3, 4)
2. If those Christians who had knowledge (that an idol was nothing) were to sit at meat in an idol temple, their actions could influence a weaker brother who had not such knowledge (who thought an idol to be something) to eat of the idol’s sacrifice, and thereby by guilty of idolatry. (Verse 10)

D. THE WORST CASUALTY THAT MIGHT RESULT FROM THE ABUSE OF LIBERTY WOULD BE THE APOSTASY OF A PROFESSED BELIEVER. (VERSE 11, 12)
1. For sake of one’s liberty, would he be willing to see a brother perish. (Verse 11)
a) How totally contrary to the Spirit of Christ, to whom the redeemed are most precious.
b) None of the redeemed of the Lord shall ever perish, but it is possible for some who profess to be His to turn away. What Christian would want to be the cause of such a calamity? Let us rather nourish what we may see as weak faith.
2. To sin so against the brethren is to sin against Christ Himself. (Verse 12; Matt. 25:40)

E. THE APOSTLE ENFORCES ALL HE HAS SAID WITH HIS OWN EXAMPLE. (VERSE 13)
1. To offend one of Christ’s redeemed ones is a very serious sin. The word may mean to cause to stumble. (Matt. 18:6, 7)
2. Rather than to be guilty of such a crime, the Apostle was willing to deny himself that which was his right to enjoy.
a) Meat and flesh may refer particularly to that which had been offered to idols, which could be purchased in the marketplace.
b) However, he may be referring to meat and flesh altogether, in which case, he was willing to deny himself the enjoyment and nourishment of all meat, if need be.
3. How is it with us? Do we so love the brethren, that we esteem them better than ourselves? Does their wellbeing come before our rights as Christians?

I CORINTHIANS 7:25-40

MAY 31, 2020

ADVICE RESPECTING THE UNMARRIED

INTRODUCTION:

1. In the previous chapter, Paul had warned the Corinthians against fornication. This was a matter that he had addressed in a letter which he had written to them earlier, and was here taken up again. (Ch. 5:9)
2. In this chapter he is responding to questions which they had asked in a letter written to him concerning marriage.
3. Generally speaking, he said, it is good for a man to have his own wife, and a woman her own husband. However, in that juncture of time it was good if they did not marry, provided they were able to contain and not burn.
4. Respecting those who were married, his commandment was the same as our Lord’s; that is, they were to remain married, regardless of the trying and difficult times in which they lived.
5. Concerning some particular questions Paul offers his best advice. The advice given applies to all in principle, but was given especially for them with respect to their peculiar circumstances.
6. What he has to say in the following verses about virgins and marriage, he speaks not by way of commandment. However, it is the carefully considered counsel of a God-called Apostle who has proven himself faithful to his calling. Therefore, Christians must not take lightly what he has to say on these particular matters.

I. ADVICE FOR VIRGINS RESPECTING MARRIAGE. (VERSES 25-35)

A. WHAT HE HERE SPEAKS IS NOT BY WAY OF ABSOLUTE AUTHORITY, BUT SIMPLY GOOD ADVICE. (VERSE 25)
1. “Now concerning virgins…” It appears that he is not taking up the next question proposed in their letter to him.
2. On this matter he had no authorized commandment, but he will give his judgment. Considering who he was, what he was to them (a father), and the credentials which he here gave; his advice was certainly worthy of their careful attention.
3. Note, faithfulness in the ministry is owing to the mercy and grace of Christ. Paul was always ready to acknowledge this truth. (Ch. 15:10; I Tim. 1:12)

B. HIS ADVICE, ON ACCOUNT OF THE IMPENDING TROUBLE, WAS THAT THEY SHOULD REMAIN SINGLE. (VERSES 26, 27)
1. “The present distress…” probably means the present state of impending trouble.
a) The coming of Christ, which the Apostles thought to be near at hand, would be accompanied by great calamities.
b) The awful desolation of Jerusalem, which was coming very soon, would bring trouble for Christians of all races.
c) It was not however, to these calamities that Paul here refers, but rather to those which it was predicted should attend the introduction of the Gospel.
2. In light of this distress, or necessity, Paul’s advice was twofold.
a) Those who were not married, he advised to remain in their unmarried state.
b) Those who were already married were, of course, to stay married. No amount of distress or trouble would justify dissolving the marriage.

C. IF THEY CHOSE NOT TO HEED THIS ADVICE, IT WAS NOT A SIN, BUT THEY WERE INVITING TROUBLE. (VERSE 28)
1. Marriage was inexpedient, not sinful. It is not because there is anything wrong with marriage that Paul dissuades from it, but because such shall have trouble (suffering in the flesh; that is external, not spiritual or inward afflictions). “Flesh” is sometimes used in this sense for things external. (John 6:63; Eph. 6:5; II Cor. 11:18)
2. “But I spare you…” The design of Paul’s advice not to marry was to spare them such trouble in the flesh.

D. PAUL WOULD HAVE THEM REMEMBER THE TRANSITORY NATURE OF ALL EARTHLY TIES. (VERSES 29-31)
1. “The time is short.” He means by this either the time of this life, or the duration of the world.
2. Therefore, if you be married, or choose to become married, it is but a very brief temporal relationship to be enjoyed. We must hold loosely those things that pertain to this temporal life. (II Cor. 4:18; Matt. 22:30)
3. This consideration should also weigh with those who are afflicted, and whose lot in this life is filled with much sorrow. “And they that weep (over losses of loved ones) as though they wept not.” (I Theas. 4:13)
4. Likewise, “they that rejoice” (in common things of the world) must not let these things be the sole source of their joy, for we will very shortly leave them. (Col. 3:1, 2)
5. Then, let those that have liberal buying power, possess their purchased goods as only borrowed for a short while. Let us realize that we will not possess our good things for long. (Psa. 49:10-13; 90:10) Many idolize their possessions, and like Micah, when they were taken away, they will have nothing more. (Jud. 18:24)
6. All must therefore learn to “use this world, as not abusing it.” God has given to us in this present world all of life’s necessities, as well as much to enjoy. The Apostle here warns us not to overindulge. The word “abuse” means “to use overmuch.”

E. PAUL ALSO POINTS OUT THAT THE SINGLE LIFE WOULD ENABLE THEM TO CONSECRATE THEMSELVES WITH LESS DISTRACTION TO THE SERVICE OF THE LORD. (VERSES 32-35)
1. This is the third reason Paul gives for his advice to remain unmarried.
a) The first reason is the increased troubles marriage was likely to bring.
b) The second reason is the transitory nature of earthly things.
c) The third reason is the comparative freedom from care connected with the single life.
2. The unmarried man may devote himself to the things of the Lord, i.e. to the service of Christ, since he has no family to provide for, and to protect in times of distress and persecution. (Verses 32, 33)
3. What is true of men is true also of women. (Verse 34)
a) The difference here noted, is that the virgin may devote her whole time to the service of the Lord, while the wife must devote much of her time to her husband and family.
b) The virgin therefore may be holy (consecrated) in body and in spirit. It is in this sense that the word “holy” is used. A married woman may be just as holy (pure, spiritual, devout) as a virgin.
4. The object of the Apostle in this was their advantage. (Verse 35)
a) He had no intention to restrain their liberty. “Not that I may cast a snare upon you.”
b) He would not ensnare them. They were perfectly free to do as pleased them. There was no moral obligation upon them to remain single.
c) His design was to promote what was becoming and proper, that is, undistracted devotion to the Lord.
d) Everywhere the Apostle is careful to show that celibacy is preferable only for expediency’s sake, and not on the ground of a higher state of virtue.

II. ADVICE FOR PARENTS RESPECTING GIVING THEIR DAUGHTERS IN MARRIAGE. (VERSES 36-38)

A. IF CIRCUMSTANCES RENDER IT DESIRABLE, THEY MAY WITHOUT HESITATION GIVE THEIR DAUGHTERS IN MARRIAGE. (VERSE 36)
1. In this and the following verses, he addresses the fathers, because with both Jews and Greeks, the giving away of their daughters was the father’s responsibility.
2. Paul’s opinion on this matter is made very clear; he assures fathers that they are perfectly free to exercise their own judgment in giving their daughters in marriage, or keeping them single.
3. As it was considered a reproach to be unmarried, if a father thought he exposed her to disgrace by keeping her single after she had become of full age, he may give her in marriage.
4. If a daughter had come to the flower of her age and passed, and if need so required, (perhaps her own happiness), the father could do as he thought best. Although the father had the power, his decision did not exclude his daughter’s need.

B. IF THE FATHER WAS FREE TO ACT ACCORDING TO HIS OWN JUDGMENT, PAUL ADVISED TO KEEP THEM UNMARRIED. (VERSES 37, 38)

1. “He that standeth steadfast in his heart,” i.e. whose judgment is settled, and who is fully persuaded that his daughter’s marriage would be inexpedient.
2. “Having no necessity,” i.e. nothing rendering it needful to act contrary to his own judgment.
3. “But hath power over his own will,” i.e. is able to do according to what he things best.
4. “And hath so decreed in his heart,” i.e. has fully made up his mind “to keep his virgin,” i.e. to keep his daughter unmarried, “he doth well.”
5. He who gives his daughter in marriage has done no wrong, it is well. But, he that keeps her single has done better. (Verse 38)

III. ADVICE TO WIDOWS RESPECTING REMARRIAGE. (VERSES 39, 40)

A. MARRIAGE CAN ONLY BE DISSOLVED BY DEATH. (VERSE 39a)

B. AFTER THE DEATH OF HER HUSBAND, A WOMAN IS AT LIBERTY TO MARRY AGAIN. (VERSE 39b)
1. The death of either party leaves the survivor free to marry again. (Rom. 7:103)
2. The one stipulation for Christian widows and widowers is that they marry one who is also a believer. “…only in the Lord.”

C. IN PAUL’S JUDGMENT, THE SURVIVOR WOULD BE HAPPIER IN REMAINING SINGLE. (VERSE 40) Again, we may conclude that his opinion was founded on the peculiar circumstance of the time, and not intended to bind the conscience or interfere in the liberty of others.

I CORINTHIANS 7:12-24

MAY 17, 2020

ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS ABOUT MARRIAGE (PART II)

INTRODUCTION:

1. The Corinthians had written to the Apostle, seeking his advice on a number of things in reference to the state of the church. As we can see from this chapter, one of the subjects upon which they sought direction was marriage.
2. In our last study (Verses 1-11), he told them that as a general law, every man should have his own wife, and every woman her own husband, and that the parties had mutual responsibilities to the union. However in light of the present circumstances, if a man, according to God’s gift could remain single, it would be more expedient. But, regardless of the present circumstances, those who were married were to remain so.
3. His instructions concerning those who were married were essentially the same as what Jesus had taught. (Vrs. 10, 11) However, beginning with Verse 12, he will address some particulars of which the Lord had not spoken.

I. THE CASE IN WHICH ONE OF THE MARRIED PARTIES WAS A CHRISTIAN AND THE OTHER A JEW OR A PAGAN. (VERSES 12-15)

A. THIS KIND OF CASE WAS NOT SPECIALLY ADDRESSED IN OUR LORD’S TEACHINGS. (VSE. 12a) “But to the rest speak I, not the Lord…”
1. By this clarification he is not suggesting that this was merely his own opinion. To be sure, had the Lord had occasion to address this particular subject, His instructions would have been in perfect agreement with His inspired Apostle.
2. The context makes it clear, that in the former instruction, both parties were Christian.
3. That which Paul here writes concerning mixed marriages, he writes by divine inspiration. (See Ch. 14:37)

B. IF THE UNBELIEVING PARTY IS WILLING TO REMAIN IN THE MARRIAGE, IT SHOULD NOT BE DISSOLVED. (VERSE 12)
1. The rule which the Apostle lays down is that such marriages are lawful, and therefore no obligation is on the Christian’s part to dissolve it.
2. Therefore, if the Christian is not bound to break the union, he has no right to do so. As we noted in our previous lesson, the Gospel was not designed to interfere with the ordinary and lawful relations of mankind.

C. NEITHER THE HUSBAND NOR THE WIFE IS ALLOWED TO REPUDIATE THE OTHER. (VERSE 13)
1. The Greek word is the same respecting both actions. He may not “send her away.” She may not “leave him.”
2. By the Law of both the Greeks and the Romans, the woman as well as the man had on legal grounds the right of divorce.
3. These marriages in which one of the parties had become a Christian, but the other had remained in unbelief, might, according to the Law of Christ, be continued, and if at all possible, must be continued.
4. He proceeded to remove some objections which a Christian might have entertained on this point.

D. THE MARRIAGE UNION IN SUCH CASES IS NOT MADE PROFANE, BUT REMAINS SACRED. (VERSE 14)
1. Paul states that the holy state of matrimony remains holy in the cases of mixed marriages, because the unbelieving party is sanctified by the believing party. How is this so? I believe it simply means that a believer, without offence to the Law of God, may continue in a married state with an unbeliever, for the state of marriage is a holy state, notwithstanding the disparity with reference to religion. Sanctification here is not referring to holy character. Certainly, no believer can so sanctify an unbeliever, either in marriage of any other relation. All that we are required to understand here is that the unbeliever was sanctified in regard to the subject under discussion, i.e. whether it was proper for the parties to live together.
2. Paul states that children born to such a union are not illegitimate. The argument here is that, since your children are not regarded as illegitimate or unclean, the union itself is not unholy. They were joined together by God, and made one flesh. No marriage union is to be put asunder, whether the parties are both Christian or both unbelievers, or if it be a mixed marriage.

E. IF THE UNBELIEVING PARTY REFUSE TO REMAIN, THE BELIEVER WAS THEN FREE. (VSE. 15)
1. The Christian was not to repudiate the unbelieving spouse, but it the unbelieving party broke up the marriage, the Christian partner was thereby liberated from the marriage contract. The Apostle is not here contradicting His Lord, Who made adultery the only exception. (Matt. 5:32) It is by the Spirit of Christ that he adds desertion as another cause.
2. In case of desertion, “a brother or sister is not in bondage,” i.e. is not bound. If the unbeliever is content to remain, the believer is bound, but if the unbeliever will not consent, the believer is no longer bound.
3. The Gospel was not designed to break up families, or to separate husbands from their wives. “But God hath called us in peace.” Separation should be avoided if at all possible. However, in some cases, the Christian may have no other choice.

F. ONE GREAT REASON TO KEEP THE MARRIAGE TOGETHER IS IN HOPES OF SAVING THE UNBELIEVING PARTNER. (VERSE 16)
1. To the many duties in marriage, here is added one of utmost importance, that of seeking the salvation of a spouse.
2. When one becomes a Christian, his great desire is to see his loved ones saved. If such a one is married, then first priority will be the salvation of his or her mate.
3. See I Pet. 3:1, 2

II. CHRISTIANITY WAS NOT INTENDED TO BREAK UP ANY OF THE LAWFUL RELATIONS OF LIFE OR CHANGE THE EXTERNAL STATE. (VERSES 17-24)

A. AS A GENERAL RULE CONVERTS WERE TO REMAIN IN THE SAME SOCIAL POSITION AS THEY HAD OCCUPIED BEFORE CHRISTIANITY FOUND THEM. (VERSES 17-20)
1. It is not surprising, knowing the effect that the first preaching of the Gospel, had that men were in many instances disposed to break loose from their social ties.
2. Paul endeavored to convince all believers that their relation to Christ was compatible with every social relationship, whether it be husband and wife, slave and master, etc. It mattered not whether they were circumcised or uncircumcised, bond or free, married or single, their relationship with Christ remained the same.
3. Whatever station or condition a man occupied before knowing Christ, let him remain in it. “As God hath distributed to every man (whatever his lot in life), as the Lord hath called every man (whatever his station when called by the Word and Spirit of God) so let him walk.” (Verses 17, 20)

B. PAUL’S FIRST APPLICATION OF THE PRINCIPLE JUST LAID DOWN. (VERSES 18, 19)
1. Jews, when they became Christians, were sometimes wont when they left Judaism to obliterate the mark of circumcision.
2. Then, on the other hand, the Judiazers were intent on seeing Gentile converts circumcised. Both were wrong. (See Rom. 2:25-20)

C. PAUL’S SECOND APPLICATION OF THIS PRINCIPLE. (VERSES 21-23)
1. Being another man’s servant was not uncommon in that age of the world.
2. We can understand why one who was a slave might see his emancipation in Christ as reason to think that he should not be another man’s bondman. However, his spiritual emancipation was not effected at all by his temporal state.
3. Paul says, “Care not for it.” In other words, it matters not. In other places, he stresses that it is the will of God that we witness a good witness in whatever calling we are in. (See I Pet. 3:18ff)
4. However, if the opportunity to become free were offered, the bondman might either:
a) Use the opportunity to be set free,
b) Or, as many see it, use it as an opportunity to be a witness for Christ by remaining a servant.
5. Notice, the state of a servant no way prejudices a man as to his spiritual liberty. A servant and a free man, with reference to Christ, are both one. (Verse 22)
a) A servant may be as near the Kingdom of Heaven as a free man.
b) And regardless of a man’s state of civil liberty, if he is a Christian, he is still the servant of Christ, and bound in all things to obey Him.
c) As to the new man, “There is neither bond nor free, but Christ is all in all.”
6. Whether bond or free in the civil sense, if Christians, we are bought with a price (Ch. 6:20), and therefore, we are not the servants of men, but of Christ. (Verse 23) As servants, their service to their masters was to be done as unto the Lord. (Eph. 6:5, 6)

D. THE SUMMATION OF HIS ADVICE ON THIS MATTER. (VERSE 24)
1. No man should use his religion as an argument to break through any natural civil obligation.
2. Christians should quietly and comfortably abide in the condition in which he is, and this he may do when he abides therein with God.
3. The special presence and favor of God are not limited to any outward condition or performance.

I CORINTHIANS 7:1-24

MAY 3, 2020

ANSWERS TO QUESTIONS ABOUT MARRIAGE (PART I)

INTRODUCTION:

1. Paul now begins to address some questions which they had proposed to him in a letter. Apparently there were four specific questions to which he will respond one at a time. (Compare Ch. 7:25; 8:1; 12:1)
2. The first of these questions had to do with celibacy and marriage. As for what prompted the questions, we may form a reasonable assumption. There had sprung up among them some who were of an antinomian spirit, who, perhaps by perverting Paul’s own teachings, had made Christian liberty a cloak for lasciviousness. This sad fact was addressed in our previous lesson. Others, perhaps in their opposition to such laxity, had taken the position disparaging marriage as involving an inevitable stain. This thinking may have been influenced by the prevalence of the Essenes, a Jewish ascetic sect that believed that celibacy was a purer state than marriage. Plus, there was the influence of Gnosticism which held that all matter was inherently evil, and therefore ascetic Gnostics sought to eliminate every carnal impulse altogether. The antinomian Gnostic went to the opposite extreme, arguing that the spirit and the flesh were so utterly independent of each other that what the flesh did was of no consequence.
3. Here is Paul’s answer to the Corinthian’s question about Christianity and marriage.

I. THOUGH IN PARTICULAR SITUATIONS MARRIAGE MAY NOT BE EXPEDIENT, AS A GENERAL RULE EVERY MAN IS TO HAVE HIS OWN WIFE, AND EVERY WOMAN HER OWN HUSBAND. (VERSES 1, 2)

A. PAUL’S STATEMENT, “IT IS GOOD FOR A MAN NOT TO MARRY,” MUST BE QUALIFIED BY LANGUAGE AND CONTEXT. (VERSE 1)
1. The word here that is rendered “good,” as in other places, means expedient or profitable. (Matt. 17:4; 18:9; I Cor. 9:15) It might have been rendered “better,” but not in the sense of making the person better, or more holy, as some have wrested it to mean.
2. In the following verse, he stresses the very opposite danger.
3. In Verse 26, the Apostle expressly states that it was the peculiar circumstances of trial and difficulty in which the Christians of that day were placed that was the ground of his statement.
4. Paul is neither contradicting the word of the Creator, or his own words in other places. (Gen. 2:18; Heb. 13:4) He used marriage to illustrate the relation between Christ and His church. (Eph. 5:22-25)
5. As a general rule, marriage is necessary for the full development of the character of the individual, and absolutely essential to the virtue and wellbeing of society.
6. When marriage is depreciated, it, without fail, is attended by the most injurious consequences to the church and to the world.
7. The Apostle is here saying, “Considering your peculiar circumstances, it is expedient for you not to marry.”

B. WHATEVER EXCEPTIONS THERE MAY BE, AS A GENERAL RULE MARRIAGE IS BEST FOR ALL. (VERSE 2)
1. The increase of cares and responsibilities connected with marriage make it expedient for those to remain single who need to be free from such added concerns.
2. This, however, does not alter the great Law of God, that it is not good for man to be alone. Celibacy is to be the exception, not the rule. Every man does not have this “gift,” (Verse 7) and therefore to avoid fornication, marriage is God’s proper gift to them.
3. The marriage state is by divine wisdom prescribed for preventing fornication, which includes all sorts of forbidden sexual activity. Living together without being married is now commonly accepted in our society. They scoff and say, “Who needs a piece of paper to make it legal?” The marriage covenant is more than a notarized piece of paper; it is a sacred contract, between two people whose intention it is to honor God in the holy state of matrimony.

II. THE MUTUAL OBLIGATIONS OF HUSBAND AND WIFE TO THE MARRIAGE COVENANT. (VRS. 3-5)

A. IN MARRIAGE, MUTUAL CONJUGAL DUTIES ARE ASSUMED. (VERSES 3, 4)
1. Each is to consider the disposition and exigency of the other. “…due benevolence.” (Verse 3) Thus, they would not “defraud” each other.
2. Each of the two parties in marriage has delivered to the other the power over his or her body.
a) Adultery is therefore a breach of the marriage covenant.
b) Polygamy is clearly a breach of the marriage covenant.

B. SEPARATION IS PERMITTED, IF IT BE BY MUTUAL CONSENT, AND FOR HOLY PURPOSE, BUT ONLY FOR A TIME. (VERSE 5)
1. There was apparently in the church the idea held by some that celibacy was a holier state than marriage. This was due perhaps to the influence mentioned before. It naturally led to the conclusion that married people ought to separate, and this separation was regarded as evidence of eminent spirituality.
2. The Apostle Paul, even though he had the gift of celibacy, had wisdom to see that this practice would open the door to Satan’s temptation.
3. His advice to them was that in order to avoid Satan’s temptation they should regulate their times of separations as follows:
a) The separation must be my mutual consent.
b) The separation must be temporary.
c) The separation must be for some religious (or otherwise good) purpose. Times of deep humiliation and intense prayer may require abstinence from lawful pleasures.
d) They must come together again after the designated time for separation.
e) They must know their limitations, and not allow Satan an occasion to get an advantage.

III. WHETHER TO MARRY OR NOT TO MARRY, EACH ONE MUST ACT ACCORDING TO THE GRACE OF GOD GIVEN TO HIM. (VERSES 6-9) What he had said either in reference to marriage, or temporary separation, was good advice according to the wisdom given to him, but each one must ultimately determine what he will do according to his ability.

A. MARRIAGE, WITH ITS PRIVILEGES AND OBLIGATIONS, WAS PERMITTED BUT NOT COMMANDED. (VERSE 6)
1. When Paul said, “I speak this by permission, not of commandment,” he was not saying that he was permitted, though not commanded to give this advice. He is rather saying that these Christians were to take his words as granting them permission, but not as obligating them by way of commandment.
2. The permission given, though it may apply to the advice in general (Verses 2-5), seems to primarily apply to Verse 5. “Let every man have his own wife, and every woman her own husband.” Some see it as applying to the advice in general, but especially to Verse 5. The next verse however seems to lend support to the first view.

B. ULTIMATELY, WHETHER THESE CHRISTIANS SHOULD MARRY OR REMAINS SINGLE WAS A MATTER TO BE DECIDED INDIVIDUALLY BASED ON ONE’S PERSONAL CONSTITUTION. (VERSES 7-9)
1. Considering The times of persecution, which were certain to become worse, Paul admitted the expediency of all remaining single like himself. (Verse 7a)
2. Nevertheless, the Apostle understood that his own continence was a gift of God. (Verse 6b) Not all had this ability. “Every one hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.”
3. Natural constitutions vary, and even where similar, different degrees of grace are vouchsafed.
4. Paul saw the single life as preferable under the present circumstances (Verse 8) but only if one had the proper gift. “It is better to marry than to burn.” (Verse 9)
5. Again, it needs to be stressed that Paul is not recommending celibacy as being a more holy state than marriage. Clearly, for one to enter such a life without the proper gift of God could well prove to be the very opposite. (See Matt. 19:10-12)

IV. TO THE MARRIED, THE OBLIGATION IS TO REMAIN MARRIED. (VERSES 10, 11) What Paul here has to say respecting those who were already married is in perfect agreement with what Christ Himself had before taught. (Matt. 5:32) In the verses that follow, he will deal with some matters about which Christ did not discourse. Had He done so, there would doubtless have been perfect agreement between Himself and His divinely inspired Apostle on these issues as well.

A. CONCERNING DIVORCE, CHRIST HAD ALREADY TAUGHT THAT THE MARRIAGE BOND COULD NOT BE DISSOLVED AT THE OPTION OF THE PARTIES. “Let not the wife depart from her husband.” (Verse 10b) “Let not the husband put away his wife.” (Verse 11b)
1. The marriage bond cannot be broken by any human authority, because it is, in virtue of the Law of God, a covenant for life between one man and one woman.
2. Aside from the two exceptions given by our Lord and His inspired Apostle, what God has joined together shall not be put asunder. Adultery annuls it because it is a breach of the specific contract involved in marriage. So also does willful desertion, as the Apostle teaches in the following verses.
3. This is the Christian doctrine concerning divorce, founded on the nature of marriage and on the clear teachings of our Lord. (Matt. 5:32; 19:3-9; Mark 10:2-12; Luke 16:18)
4. According to this doctrine, nothing but adultery or willful desertion is a legitimate ground for divorce, because Scripture allows for no other grounds. Human laws make many things an occasion for divorce, but not so the Scriptures.

B. IN CASE A WOMAN SHOULD DEPART FROM HER HUSBAND, SHE HAS BUT TWO CHOICES. (VERSE 11)
1. In case a woman has actually departed from her husband for reasons other than the two exceptions given above, she must either:
a) Remain unmarried, or
b) Be reconciled to her husband.
2. There are undoubtedly cases which may justify a woman leaving her husband, which do not justify divorce.

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